
Picture: My friend Soley, me and an (atypical) beer-girl having Cambodian BBQ.
With Kentucky Fried Chicken and Pizza Hut being trendy places to dine out for many Asians, it is refreshing to see that Siem Reap lacks so far such establishments (and no McDonald’s either) as besides eating roadside, the traditional way of dining-out is still preserved in Cambodia. Recently I was invited to experience with Cambodian friends a night-out at a local restaurant and experience what sets the Cambodian dining-experience apart: entertainment. We drove to a spacious open-air restaurant, surrounded by little huts, for a more private dining experience, which was located on the outskirts of Siem Reap and boasted, very essential, a huge car-park for the prestigious new cars of the guests. We were then welcomed by lovely ladies dressed in night-gowns who ushered us to our table. Immediately we were surrounded by “beer girls” wearing beer brand uniforms ranging from Tiger, Anchor, Asahi to Heineken. The ladies are paid by the bottle they sell so they wasted no time trying to convince us to go with their brand. I quickly settled for my beloved Japanese Asahi beer and the Asahi-girl brought warm beer bottles and poured it into our glasses, adding ice-cubes in order to cool it (the positive effect is that it dilutes the alcohol). Regarding food I opted for a traditional Cambodian BBQ that consisted of a dome-shaped table-grill that gets coated with lots of butter and is heated by hot coal. Than vegetables and beef is barbequed on the grill and served with rice. And being Cambodia one does not have to move a bit as the waitresses pour beer, bring ice-cubes, put the beef on the grill and attend to all other desires one should have (and I mean any…). For example is it not uncommon that customers have beer girls as part-time girlfriends, paying for their accommodation, food and clothes for three months (my friends assured me that you can even get a “rental-contract” for the girls, clarifying the arrangement on paper). Besides maybe a new Toyota truck a girlfriend adds to the prestige of any Cambodian man. So besides beer, food and female company Cambodian restaurants also offer further entertainment: music. The restaurant featured a big stage where a one-man band and half-a-dozen female and male singers were singing songs. Let me be honest here, I love the Asian lifestyle but two things I am still struggling with: first, Asian desserts, and secondly the Asian taste of music. Especially Khmer music is all about failed relationship, unanswered love, cheating and other miserable, heartbreaking stories and the music exactly matches the dreadful lyrics (the experience does not get better when drunken guests start to sing Karaoke). I asked my Khmer friends why they love to listen to miserable broken-hearted songs and they explained me that the songs remind them of how their wives feel and they feel pity with them, understanding better the feelings of their wives through music. Fair enough, but why women then do have Cambodian women to complain that much in the first place?
Picture: Me and Soley having a toast with Asahi-Beer
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