
Picture: A traditional Swiss greeting with little words exchanged.
What happens if a Swiss meets a Swiss abroad? Nothing, as they avoid each other! Not long ago I had dinner in a Swiss-owned fine-dining restaurant in the picturesque art deco town of Napier. Upon entering the restaurant a dour-faced Swiss chef de service led us to our table, barely even smiling. After I tried to make small-talk in Swiss-German, he disappeared upstairs while his untrained staff were nibbling on the bread that was meant for customers. He not only ignored us, he ignored all the other customers as well, hiding behind the bar away from the tables. Only recently I got the same cold reaction from two Swiss travelers I met at a Maori show in Rotorua. As I experienced before: Swiss avoid Swiss abroad.
Having traveled in New Zealand the contrast between the New Zealander's cheerful friendliness and the Swiss' grumpiness is painfully stark. And one thing stood out: traveling in New Zealand is not only pleasant because of the abundance of nature and plethora of activities, but also because the overwhelming friendliness of the Kiwis. We stayed at the Cottage Mews Motel in Taupo, a small family-managed motel, and were deeply touched by the spontaneous note and birthday gift my wife got. Staying at the Twin Gullies B&B near Akaroa was not only very blissful because of the large wooden pre-earthquake house, but also because of the cheerful and heartfelt welcome we got from the owners, Doug and Vic. At the other end of the world, a smile can make you feel at home instantly. The Kiwis seem to know that!
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